Family Ministry Today

The Center for Christian Family Ministry at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary

“Parents: Three Motivations to Avoid”

by Derek Brown – Apr 28

Jason Allen, President of Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, reminds parents to avoid parenting from ambition, fear, and pride.

As the father of five young children, I live with an ever-present awareness that my greatest stewardship is my children. Many men can preach a sermon and more than a few can be a seminary president, but only one can father these five children.

Thus, my wife and I approach our family with a profound sense of stewardship and intentionality. As parents, we are practitioners, but also observers, always seeking to learn and improve in order to be most faithful.

Over the past decade, I’ve witnessed in others—and, unfortunately, in myself—three parental motivations to avoid. Like weeds that force their way through the best-cultivated garden or thickest concrete, these motivations seem stubborn, always reappearing; resilient, always resurfacing.

In fact, if I could wish away three parental motives from my heart, and from others, it would be these: ambition, fear, and pride.

You can read the whole article here.